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Not so long ago in our small town there has passed unusual event. With lecture on a theme «Healthy pregnancy. Natural childbirth. The childhood without medicines and inoculations» there has arrived Jeanne Sergeevna Sokolova, d.m.n., the known accoucheur-gynecologist. Why I named its unusual? Well simply in our conservative city it is not accepted to discuss such problems aloud. At all of us becomes in the old manner: pregnancy is an illness which should be treated strenuously, childbirth is an operation, with all conclusions following from here, and the newborn is a weak and impractical being which too should be treated by all means …
It is a lot of years worked in public health services system, ZH.S the Sokolov has come to conclusion that frequently ours to treatment similar on «shooting from a gun on sparrows». Yes, the effect at times is quickly reached, however by what price … Having realised, that it cannot conduct reception on old stereotypes any more, was engaged in private practice of the doctor-accoucheur. Jeanne Sergeevna has understood, that the effective remedy of disposal of many illnesses is to give the chance to an organism to treat itself. And we can help it by means of a healthy way of life, zakalivanija, uses of natural natural means.
Yes, probably, to someone it will seem banal trues. For a long time it is known - «the Sun, air and water - our best friends». However how many women have found happiness of motherhood thanks to Jeanne Sergeevne. It would seem, the most hopeless cases, on which doctors already have given up as a bad job … and here there comes pregnancy, behind it childbirth, and on hands of parents - the healthy kid.
The main thought, which ZH.S. The Sokolov wished to inform to all present «it was not necessary to interfere with natural processes». If the Lord has sent pregnancy and if it independently has not interrupted on early terms - the child will be born the healthy. As known professor M.N.Fomin «has told to give health to the child - means, to do nothing!».
Jeanne Sergeevna has much told about harm of medicines and chemically synthesised vitamins, especially for pregnant women. As she said, the woman in expectation of the child should eat the fresh or frozen cowberry, a cranberry, a currant, a guelder-rose in any quantities. By all means every day to eat on a half-glass of prunes, dried apricots or raisin. Grassy gathering (for example, consisting of leaves of a raspberry, a currant, a cowberry, mint, a balm) are very useful. Well and if the organism will not have not enough any vitamin or a mineral, the organism itself will prompt, that it is necessary for it - here suddenly very much it will want to you tvorozhka or apples
A lot of attention has been given a role of the daddy in a birth of the healthy child. After all the big responsibility for health of mum and the kid lays down on it, it is necessary for it to incur all burden which parents can face. And participation of the daddy in sorts is almost the important issue, whether the woman of the house or in maternity home gives birth.
It has separately been told about house sorts. Jeanne Sergeevna, certainly, is their supporter, considering, what exactly behind them the future. I will not stop on it as personally for me it is a question at issue. In my opinion, the woman should solve itself where she will feel quieter and more confident.
Being the person orthodox, ZH.S. The Sokolov perfectly understands, that the basis of physical health is first of all cleanliness moral, chastity, a word all those traditional Russian values which the Russian mass-media strenuously move far away, are perverted and appear atavisms of the modern person. Any sensible gynecologist knows, that presence of 3-5 sexual partners inevitably conducts to inflammatory processes in bodies of a small basin, and as consequence – barreness …
Yes, barreness now very serious problem, not only in Russia, but also all over the world. ZH.S. The Sokolov has faced it on personal experience. On 1 pregnant woman to it on reception 16 women who for whatever reasons cannot conceive, take out or give birth to the child come. The terrible statistics! What else it is possible to allocate the reasons of such sad situation? Jeanne Sergeevna allocates 2 basic are hormonal preparations and vaccines. The hormone, even in small amounts entered into an organism, causes gross infringements in functioning of many bodies. Some hormonal contraceptives cause destruktsiju jaichnikov. Differently, to speak about safety of hormonal contraceptives (that we are imposed persistently by advertising) is equivalent to confirm about harmlessness of drugs. We know, that harmless drugs do not happen, as cannot be and gormonsoderzhashchih preparations without collateral action. As to vaccines. Being by the nature mutagenami, they first of all influence the most vulnerable sections of our organism - sexual. As result - everyone 5 the born child has any genetic deviations. And then we are surprised – and why our children so often are ill, such weak …
The true share, and besides not small, in all it is.

Time and again it is possible to hear what to sit at home with children is one of productive leisure kinds. But usually so those to whom has not had the luck to "have a rest" in a similar way speak. Besides direct employment with the child, on mum the uneasy problem of conducting all housekeeping lays: an order, the pure and ironed clothes, and also a breakfast-dinner-supper, it is desirable not from half-finished products. And what such the small child in the house from the point of view of house affairs? The dirty linen, which quantity accrues within day, pogrom on kitchen after each food intake, the turned out cases and boxes, toys on all apartment in the most improbable places. And if children two or three? Safely multiply all on two or three!

Certainly, in a life all looks not so awfully. But if correctly not to organise time the entropy wave will overflow so, that will not seem a little. At me so happens: to senior Timoshe was 1,5 when was born Mashenka. In the beginning all was excellent – the babe slept much and could lie down easy in the bed, examining a colourful mobile. At the same time Timosha was independent enough to give the chance to mum to do house affairs. Idyll has disappeared, when Mashutka hardly became more senior, to sleep became less and demanded all time to carry it on hands. Here I have run away over the economy, and the nightmare has begun! The order induced by means of the daddy, kept exactly till the next morning, all next day I endlessly was tidied up, exhausted to exhaustion, but the picture of general chaos remained former. Pretty the picture turned out: tired mum with the disgusting mood, thrown children and the husband, the started apartment …

What to do, after all not to be justified by presence of small children! Especially, the order is simply necessary for harmonious development of children, their calmness and steadiness.

Intuitively I have chosen a way which as it has appeared, for a long time already exists and «the Rule of 10 minutes» is called. Its sense consists that it is daily necessary to allocate 10 minutes for any business. Not to plan something grandiose, trying in every way it to carry out, and then or in full powerlessness to fall to any horizontal surface, or to be upset, if it will not turn out to carry out the plan. And small, but constant short steps to move ahead to the purpose: not to wash up a window in all apartment, and in the first day to wash up internal glasses and a window sill, next day – between frames, on the third – external glasses. At this washing of windows it appears absolutely nenaprjazhnym business. And so in all: your purpose – to do every day any small business.

In what advantage of the given method still consists: for example, today children easy are engaged in the toys, you have slept and are full of forces, therefore on house affairs it is possible to give to time more – both half an hour, and hour. And tomorrow – children are capricious, in the street the rain and would not be desirable to get up at all. It is enough to throw linen in washing or to water flowers with feeding solution. At such approach at you remains also time for rest, to take a nap in the afternoon if children sleep, or to be engaged in itself, to meet the husband beautiful, fresh and cheerful. And the husband will estimate it, believe!

The only stipulation which is necessary for carrying out that the rule was effective. It to support a current order, things to put at once on the place. The washed up ware, the filled beds, a pure floor. If not to start, on its maintenance leaves no more than 30 minutes in day. I, for example, alternate days when I wipe a dust both I clean carpets a vacuum cleaner and I do damp cleaning (floors not to wash and to wipe). And if the current order at present is not present and it is impossible, I advise to you to call to the aid the husband or mum or the girlfriend, once properly to be tidied up, and then you will consult.

P.S. While I wrote it, my senior children have arranged “the big washing” - have filled a bath with water, have thrown off there all dirty things and began to "rinse" so, that wet not only a floor, but also all walls, and even partially a corridor %-) Here …

I think, the section "Children" should be begun with how all began Especially recently began "good form" to write among Internet mummies about the childbirth. And after all the audience of readers (is more true than readers) is rather solid - basically those who should pass in the near future this stage though in the first though in third-fourth time read. For what? To be inspired, take courage, define for themselves possible ways of interaction with the medical personnel beginning from female consultation to maternity home etc. But I will tell more - such stories and those mummies which childbirth for the present "does not shine" read, and from the moment of own - there have passed some years … My girlfriend, for example, unpack from the Internet of ten pages of such stories and read greedily, as Darya Dontsovu! :-))

I will enclose also the mite in this literary genre popular nowadays

Pregnancy.

Actually my experience of mum, most likely, has begun right after weddings. Before this significant event at me there have passed critical days, and since then I still for a long time them did not see. Though we with the husband have decided, that I should finish easy university (in marriage I left in the end of 4 courses), to get a job and already then prespokojnenko to leave in the decree. For the sake of this purpose even has been bought special priborchik – a minimicroscope «MaybeBaby» for definition ovuljatsii (in our case to know "dangerous" days). Every day I diligently spat on magnifying and glass and waited for result. Till now I can not understand, why at me by results of this test constantly was ovuljatsija?!

However monthly and have not come, has made the test and has seen 2 polosochki, then one more test – again 2 polosochki … For some reason I did not expect such result, therefore have run into a depression because of ostensibly for ever the ruined young life. Silly, I cried that absolutely has not had time to take pleasure yet in a life together with the husband that now a hedgehog I can not arrive in postgraduate study, be arranged for good work etc. And in general, at me all not as at all. Wash the husband on the contrary was very happy, in every possible way me encouraged, and when has got tired of my constant "sufferings" - has told to me approximately so: «That you so worry? You will give birth to the child, we with it remain here, and you poezzhaj in postgraduate study, do career, travel and sometimes on us look». It so has revolted me, has upset, that I have ceased to think of all it.

With this "secret" I have handed over summer session and have left in children's camp in quality vozhatoj. There I was all day and night on fresh air, is balanced ate 5 times a day and awfully missed on the house and the favourite husband. By the change end in camp chicken pox epidemic has begun, and I had to retire prematurely therefrom as a chicken pox I was not ill.

Then we with the husband have gone to wedding travel to St.-Petersburg. It was the remarkable trip which and heats to this day our hearts. I, as exemplary beremeshka, looked at surrounding beauty, had a rest and enjoyed warm weather. We did not put to ourselves a problem to examine everything, that only it is possible, therefore slowly walked on the most beautiful parks, sat in cosy kafeshkah and went for a drive on boats on numerous Petersburg channels.

And September, and with it both half of pregnancy has come. And the first ultrasonic. Probably, it was the first zvonochek to feel mum. When I have seen on the monitor of the small little man, its tiny handle with the "present" tiny fingers, I somehow have especially experienced, that the grown up stomach is not simply superfluous kgs, he/she is my sonny.

On preservation.

Despite a pot-belly, I tried to conduct the same active way of life, as earlier – went to University at lecture, was often wound by an electric train home, that as a result of me and have brought. Not wishing to pass the end of lecture and thus to be in time on a high-speed electric train, I have decided to hop to station literally in a few minutes – in not pregnant condition it would be uneasy, and with mine puzikom … Very much, prevoznemogaja otdyshku, I have reached an electric train before its most departure … Have arrived home and the next day there was in branch of a pathology of pregnancy with the diagnosis «a threat of premature birth». Here also has arrived somewhat quicker … MORALS: Hurry up slowly! ()

Actually all was not so awfully as it seemed to me – simply doctor ZHK has decided me to calm a little, a little bit to brake my rate. My treatment consisted basically of a "nearby-bed" mode and valerian drops for the night at will. Conditions were very comfortable – in chamber on 2 persons of souls and a toilet, and also 2 bowls. However in the beginning stay in OPB seemed to me awful! The neigbour has appeared the person "simple", rude, and speech has been fairly flavoured by any abusive words. When I from natural "inquisitiveness" have glanced in its medical card, to me became absolutely terrible – in the last anamnesis lots of venereal diseases, trichomonads and other "troubles". It became terrible even to go to one toilet – therefore I spent a maximum of hygienic and sanitary works in a bathroom. But soon this lady have written out, and on its place have put very pleasant mummy from whom we have made friends and we are on friendly terms to this day, already families. Since this moment my life in OPB has brightened up and began to resemble rest more. There have passed 2 weeks, I have had time to become bored fairly on native, treatment any was not, therefore we with the neigbour have amicably written otkaznuju and left on freedom.

Winter session passed very easily – there were no at us the sadists mocking at pregnant students of 5 courses, and I before all handed over the others, in proud loneliness.

Childbirth

For anybody not a secret, that I take a jaundiced view of our local maternity home and I feed sincere love to scientific research institute OMM maternity home in Ekaterinburg. Therefore to go it was necessary there in advance. In a kind of strong frosts, me have advised some days to live at relatives as in chambers OPB (branch of a pathology of pregnancy) it was very cold.

Couple of days later I have woken up with feeling of humidity in underwear. Flew nothing, as I expected, therefore, having changed swimming trunks, I have again laid down to have a sleep. Has woken up. It is again wet. With any pinkish shade. Here I have decided, that, most likely okoloplodnye waters leak it. Took the packages and by a tram has gone to maternity home – fights any were not, I felt myself remarkably, vigorously and solemnly.

I have arrived to reception OMM just under peresmenku. Also has awfully angered the midwife that could not spread out a thing for patrimonial in any way and for postnatal chamber. First, I all the same thought, that at first I still will lie down in OPB, and already with fights I will go to give birth, secondly, as the diligent student, with myself I took questions to gos to examinations and could not solve in any way, in what package them to put – probably, hoped during sorts to read

Anyhow, I have appeared in patrimonial. It represented spacious chamber with a couch, an armchair on which give birth, a washstand, and also little tables and kjuvezami for the newborn. All is pure and beautiful, only here any signs of patrimonial activity.

At first have promised, that after klizmy process will go. It seemed to me, that here and fights have begun – began to sip a little bit a stomach, "learnt" by numerous books and magazines I correctly breathed and thought, that at all it and is not sick. However the doctor has disappointed me, having told, that on the present fights it is not similar. Have opened a bubble. Again full silence. Have put a prick – I do not know that because to me did not speak. The same result. As a result, having fastened a stomach to monitor KTG, me have suspended stimulating dropper with oksitotsinom rather impressive the sizes, or to tell more precisely – volumes.

Here "parsley" also has begun - fights have gone at once strong and painful, each 3-4 minutes. Worst of all there was that I have been completely paralysed": in a hand a dropper, on a stomach – belt KTG to turn, not to move somehow to relieve a pain. If first I vigorously refused offers of doctors to put anaesthetising or epiduralnuju anaesthesia by the end I simply already begged the midwife to call doctors that they already have made something. Thanks huge to the midwife whom as now I remember, called Nastej – she persuaded me still slightly to suffer, normally to give birth without everyones epiduralnyh anesthesias.

Periodically doctors came and asked, whether grieves me? I sincerely did not understand their question for the time being when me really has not started to grieve. peredyshav the risen attempt, I perekovyljala on a maternity armchair, but seemed to me, that I there treat – I understood - all went to the ending, is fast all tortures will end! At once round me the infinite quantity of the medical personnel was materialised: doctors, midwifes, probationers. I remember only that all I was in ears – listened to commands of the doctor and tried to execute them as much as possible. For me during that moment more existed nothing. Attempts for 3-4 I also has given birth to the kitten. I looked at the little son and did not believe, that it was in my stomach – present, not invented, such small and defenceless. To me have put it on a breast, and I all patted it on the back, on a back, something spoke and was madly happy! At this time to me sewed up a small cut, but it already was the insignificant pain.

The doctor supervising my childbirth has come into any moment, and has told, that the second childbirth will be easier. I even have not understood it – to me was so well, that it seemed, better and could not be. Then all have left, and we with my little son remained in patrimonial even an hour 3. After an hour after sorts on me wild hunger – fortunately has attacked, the midwife has brought to me the portion which has remained after a supper and a teapot with milk. It was the most tasty, that I ate in the life.
Summing up told, I have given birth Timoshu for 12 hours since the moment podtekanija waters, and for 6 hours from the moment of occurrence of normal fights. The son was born big - 3,960 kg and 55 see Have written out us for 5 days.

Wishing continuations, I invite to read about:

The second pregnancy and childbirth: the imperceptible

The third pregnancy and childbirth: with the daddy

I think, to begin with I need to be presented, that you represented who I and than I live. Probably, my life it is possible razedlit for 2 big periods - before wedding and after.

Life before wedding.

I had a happy childhood - thanks to my parents. We spent a lot of time together, travelled, communicated. Therefore and now the family of my parents for me means also we often vstrechaemsjai it is possible even to tell much, that we live one clan, only in different apartments. A such Italian noisy family!
How many myself I remember, always dreamt to become the doctor, «to devote the life to medicine», but it was visible not my calling, time in the end of 11 classes I have decided not to hand over entrance examinations in Medical Academy. And thirst to carry a white dressing gown and to "juggle" with jars-skljanochkami has been satisfied by that I have arrived in the Ural state university on biological faculty. The theme my course, and then and the diploma, has been connected with nevynashivaniem pregnancy, time I therefore am a lot of spent at scientific research institute of Protection of infancy and motherhood of of Ekaterinburg. There I passed to practice, collected a material for the diploma, was in control group of pregnant women for someone's dissertation, and in the winter on 5 course I all in the same place have safely given birth to the little son.
Life after wedding
I have a family. Us already five: the daddy, mum, 3-year-old merry fellow Timoshka, 2-year-old Manjasha - known for the economy and severe customs and 3-month's kid Vanyusha. Thus I not the ideal wife therefore as in bad mood I can "get" everybody; for the present has not reached that level which has defined for itself under the name "super-mum" as … it seems that is so much still all it is possible to make for children, and, eventually, I not the model mistress though I try to reach very much though any minimum ideal in all spheres. But at me the remarkable loving husband who has been carried away by "programmerskim" by business and dreaming to construct the house for the big family. At me wonderful children: cheerful, cheerful, direct which force us - adult parents to laugh and rejoice every day together with them.

My city

And in the conclusion I will tell about the city which you hardly will find on the majority of cards. No, not because it such small, and it is simple because it closed, BUT. Before it named Sverdlovsk-44, and now Novouralsk.
At a word BUT, you, probably, imagine a city, on all perimetre enclosed with a concrete wall, security guards with dogs, severe woman's faces on checkpoints? Yes, and our city looks at the first acquaintance. However let's glance in it hardly more deeply.
Quite often those who has had the luck to appear in our city (and it is usually sent «on especially confidential business» name its islet of socialism. I do not know, the truth in any confidential residence at us can also there lived Charles Marx and gave valuable instructions on the device of a life of our city. From that time we still had free call boxes at every turn, pure streets, memory of absolutely recent free journey in buses, the dairy kitchen fattening mummies with kiddies till 3 years, well and other pleasant trifles. Which, however, every year becomes ever less (all the same, Marx, probably, has died of our radiation
Well and what to do, if you want to see personally all about what I to you have told? There are some ways: the first - to register in close relatives to any inhabitant of our city, the second - as like to speak at us: «Wish to meet, talk? Please! At station, behind a checkpoint …», well and the third variant - to creep on snowdrifts along a fence in search of a hole approaching in the sizes, risking to be the caught malicious security guard (at the best).
But not all so is remarkable. Constructed by convicts for young Soviet scientists and engineers, the city, as a matter of fact, has lost a spiritual core. There have passed years … the Perspective and progressive part of townspeople gradually migrates in capitals or in general “for a hillock”, and in a city becomes more and more descendants of those builders-convicts from all of them known "subculture" of a floor-mat, beer and dismantlings. And in the only thing in a city an orthodox temple - alas, not too it is a lot of parishioners. Among which and we - my Family from the big letter (including all numerous relatives)

Has come true! The blog is started!!! Now I had a possibility to share with you the thoughts, the helpful information and easier to communicate on themes which anyhow interest all mums ….i not only who already has kids. After all each girl, the woman by the nature mum, the keeper of the centre favourite and unique … for It-favourite and the only thing. In general, social roles at us much - it is necessary to learn and be improved only in them to be the pro in the business

So, the purpose we opredilili. Now allow me to thank publicly the person without whom this blog so and remained in dreams - my favourite husband! Thanks!!!