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While I have understood, that we will have 2nd child … and there was it somehow very unexpectedly and faster, than it was supposed, has rushed in the Internet in searches poddrezhki from same mums of children-pogodok. Huge to them thanks that write about the life with pogodkami and give confidence and optimism to newly made mummies. Among these stories I have found here "it" - as mum 3 I can already tell, that behind small exceptions - the is the NAKED TRUTH!!! (By the way, in a network saw the similar story and about 3 children, but now could not find). Smile also you!

TWO STRIPS

1. Learning that you have become pregnant nezaplanirovanno for the first time, you feel: a shock, a panic and positive interest to most this fact. Thoughts: «I am pregnant?!»
2. Learning that you are pregnant the second at chest, some months from sorts a cub, you feel: a shock, a panic, once again the SHOCK, some more time a panic and positive interest to that fact as in general you has managed. Thoughts: «But how???» And «Mummies native …. Aaaaa!»

HALF FAVOURITE
1. Having learnt news, the husband …. Sets many questions in style «you it is assured?», thinks to give birth or not not long, very quickly starts to rejoice and panic. Feels a stomach and listens to it, still before the first is made uzi.
2. Having learnt news, the husband …. Asks two question in style «as?» «That we will do?», thinks to give birth or not long, very quickly starts to panic, rejoice begins not at once, is faster already then when it from a stomach will push a leg. Before does not feel a stomach and does not listen, stays in a shock …

[Comment JU.G.: in all 3 times of the positive test on beremnnost my spouse kept absolute calmness, moreover each time it me encouraged, amused and in general was the unique person who bezulovno had a radiant picture of our future. Know, I am mad to it for it is grateful!!!]

ASSOCIATES
1. Gasp and ohajut, congratulate and express admiration – HAVE dared, what good fellows. It would be desirable everyone to kiss!
2. Any infection has not congratulated, all select words and somehow not convincingly feel sympathy – yes, it will be heavy to you. It would be desirable to spit in a physiognomy to everyone!

PREGNANCY
1. You rush with the pregnancy, were registered in female consultation and go there as for work. You have thrown work (institute shirk on the lawful bases). Has bought 5 books on pregnancy and the first year of a life, has read for pregnancy everywhere a table of contents and one entirely, that was interesting. You think to go to school of pregnant women and even, probably you go there. You sleep much. Catastrophically you grow stupid. You mark at yourself changes internal and external every day. You conduct a calendar. You come on a children's site and you leave – you does not cling, you yet such fanatical mum. You talk to the kid, do gymnastics.
2. You occasionally recollect that you are pregnant. More often to you of it remind on work on which you have had time to return before has learnt that again you wait for the kid. To leave in the decree you you do not gather till last day. Or you do not recollect pregnancy because you sit with the senior of the house. You simply have. Has opened one of the bought books in last pregnancy. Has read with interest. Has learnt about sorts a lot of the new. You think, that in general in vain went then in school for pregnant women, would go to a driving school is better – when now you will be learnt one god knows. You sleep with the child and at any possibility. Possibilities are not present – therefore doze constantly. Understanding, that from sitting of the house you will become cleverer not, and sitting it is tightened, decide to learn a foreign language, to learn to knit, understand in the fan-shui or nail design – an ideal to receive a trade. With relative success of it you achieve. You open a calendar and you consider week from date CH because you can not tell at once what at you there is a week of pregnancy. Help forumnye lineechki, after all now you – active forumchanka. In the evening falling asleep, you apologise before the kid inside, what it is not enough about it the Gymnastics thought …? What gymnastics!

TOXICOSIS
1. You have tried tens means of struggle, but die every morning. All relatives sympathise with you and try to help. The husband waits for you about a toilet, being afraid, that to you becomes bad.
2. You drink nothing from a toxicosis, you sometimes about it forget and with surprise eat "unlawful". The campaign in a toilet because of a toxicosis is perceived so naturally, as cleaning of a teeth in the mornings. All relatives are interested in a difference in sensations, trying to guess whom you wait – the boy or the girl. The husband …. Does not buy those products which can «not like the kid» even if you from them never and with the first did not turn back. Now he knows all and understands also is surprised to nothing.

MATERNITY HOME
1. You to go to maternity home are afraid. You are afraid of doctors and sorts, chamber and meal. You behave modestly, silently, you get acquainted hardly.
2. You come to maternity home with jokes and humourous catchphrases. With all you get acquainted and you talk about all. Actively you share knowledge with neigbours in chamber. With doctors you speak "with skill". Sometimes you notice, that young post-graduate students are ready to write down your words.

CHILDBIRTH
1. You very much worry and try not to be afraid of sorts. It turns out badly. To give birth too it turns out not so well. Right after sorts you speak something in style «more for what». Ruptures, hemorrhoids, seams. Horror from it and from doctors, rodbloka, fights … you Think, that it was necessary to learn that such epiduralnaja anaesthesia.
2. You not so worry proceeding from thought, that second time is easier. We will endure. Right after sorts you speak something in style «more for what». Ruptures, hemorrhoids, seams. You any more in horror from it, you took in maternity home with yourself ointment from hemorrhoids and are not lazy to pull the nurse on processing of seams. You spend all time laying on a stomach. Because to lay week after sorts as last time to you not hunting and you you aspire to run away from here faster. Comparing fights, you think, what it is necessary to start to give birth to each time from the second child … Think and nafig anaesthesia is necessary epiduralnaja?

THE FIRST THOUGHTS
1. Oh. Oh!!! He/she is my kid!!! What beautiful!!! What lassie!!! As I love it!!! A nouse daddy's eyes mum's etc.
2. Yes. The miracle what ridiculous was born. I love. To mum as always it is not similar. Well and it is fine!

GV
1. You feed on hours, strictly maintaining or and with firmness holding out to necessary time. You struggle for milk – you drink teas, gathering. You are decanted after each feeding, including at night – in 3, in 6, falling asleep at a milk pump. You will feed against the stop, though till two years.
2. You feed on demand. You do nothing for this purpose that milk was – you remember the dairy rivers and a breast of 6 numbers and desire to repeat as that is not felt. Let all will be natural, as the nature has conceived mother. You are not decanted in general. You will feed while simply will not bother.

SEX
1. It is not enough sex. And not so also it would be desirable. You fall without forces, but the husband awakes. All the same in love you take pleasure. Sometimes even it would be desirable very much. But at the child not sleeping you can not. You hesitate. Even at the sleeping you try to drag off favourite in other room that and not to wake and in general. Sex – a life part.
2. It is not enough sex. And not that that would not be desirable at all, simply fall without forces and as though the husband did not awake, neither desire in you, nor you do not clear up. But in love you take pleasure, if it appear in consciousness when it happens. As a rule, it happens or in yours nesoznanii, or is unexpected and in unusual places where it is difficult to children to reach. Happens and at sleeping children, but, besides, if you in consciousness. To wake you are not afraid, to creep away in other room there are no forces. Sex – a part of last life about which while, in general, to forget would not be desirable. For you hope, that soon again you will with it ogo th. And when and where it can be at two children is already the second question ….

DREAM
1. When to you replaced with small the first and sent to have a sleep, you were chopped off instantly, but whether exactly in half an hour woke up from anxiety all there as it should be with yours krohoj and on a sound of a voice of your kid, let he even has burst out laughing or zagulil.
2. When you manage to get rid to somebody of both, you fall asleep instantly and can sleep at included light, radio, the TV, shouting children, even if someone from them decides to jump on you. Wake you that your time left and now your change can only.

JOINT DREAM
1. The joint dream with the kid became a compulsory measure. Not hearing its breath, you on 10 times for a night rose to check up as it sleeps in a bed, whether were absorbed in a small pillow, whether breathes exactly, whether sleeps easy. Baby's dummy loss became an epopee of night. For it searched all family, somewhere in half a year at last having put near to a bed the container with several spare dummies. To accustom to sleep separately you it became, because time – to the child a year (ones and a half or any age when your way already it is necessary) has already come. At a joint dream the daddy complains of narrowness, sometimes leaves to sleep in other room.
2. A joint dream with the younger? And unless it is possible to sleep without children? You sleep together and at you under a pillow three dummies and 4 pampers. To accustom to sleep separately you it you do not gather. Itself will leave, when will want. When you are necessary any more know. Most abruptly, when near to you both suddenly sleep. Where the daddy thus is located – he knows only. He does not complain any more. To leave in other room at it or there are no forces, or it therefrom and did not come ….

HAPPINESS
1. When you pressed to yourself the kitten, it seemed to you that be happier you cannot ….
2. And it has appeared, that you can … when your two small kittens nestle on you at once!

If not to look at a thermometer, in the street summer - the bright sun in the dark blue sky, the streets which are buried in verdure. People in jackets, boots and at times even in caps - well confuse only and how differently to put on, when in the morning about 0, and in the afternoon around +10 …?
It I all to that in our climate absence of appetite very few people suffers, therefore and houses, and on a visit to attempt all very much love. Here I also wish to recommend you very-very tasty and nourishing pie of a German cuisine which perfectly approaches for a family mid-morning snack, and also for the hungry visitors who have glanced on a cup of coffee. The recipe as “the Good kitchen” at hozjajushki has usually been found at a forum. I prepared it already some times and all, who tried it (including the saleswoman in culinary department from which I bought a coconut shaving) ask the recipe. This pie very easily and quickly - any knowledge is not afraid, prepares. And on taste … mmm … very soft, gentle, with surprising kokosovo-creamy aroma - thin and unostentatious.

So, we prepare the dough:

1. To shake up 3 eggs about 1-1,5 glasses of sugar.
2. To add 500 ml of kefir
3. Vmeshat 3-4 glasses of a flour + 2 ch.l. A baking powder (a baking powder preliminary to stir with a flour small amount). If the baking powder is not present, it is possible to take 0,5 ch.l. Soda and to extinguish its same kefir. The dough should be sour cream consistences.

We pour out the dough on oiled protiven (I use protiven 30х40см). We strew from above a coconut mix (100-150 gr a coconut shaving + 0,5 glasses of sugar). We put an oven on 200 degrees and we bake a pie to readiness, watching that posypka did not burn (for this purpose protiven lchshe to put on the bottom level).

While the pie is baked, we prepare watering: 200 gr milk or cream + 50-100 gr a butter (quantities of oil depends on that, you take milk or fatter cream) - to boil.

Ready pie we get from an oven and it is watered by a hot creamy mix, it is desirable a spoon that the pie has in regular intervals become impregnated. If the pie has very strongly risen, and it seems to you, that it is not enough impregnation - safely boil still milk with oil and water while all pie will not be damp. We leave to cool down, we cut and we enjoy delightful taste of a coconut pie.

P.S. If you receive visitors, do not forget to prepare some more copies of the recipe therefore as for certain will ask to share ;-))

«It is necessary! And after all at school there was such serious girl!!!» - the acquaintance of my mum when has heard, that in 24 years at me 2 children has exclaimed. I do not know, that stood up for these words, probably, that the birth of children – is the extremely frivolous and even it is indecent somehow.

Really, the relation of a society to a birth of children rather strange. How one mum having many children has truly noticed – on the first child congratulate, with the second – console (or justify?), that otmuchilas, and with the third – at the best, puzzly look what to say about the fourth, the fifth … And actually, what in it such surprising, strange and not clear?

More often orthodox families are having many children. Why? The answer actually is very simple! Because questions of a life and death is not area of expertise of people, these questions are solved only by the God. Hence, He solves, when also to whom to be born, whom and when to die. Interfering with the terrestrial and near logic in these affairs, what we wish to show? What it is cleverer than the God, what is better It we know and we know destinies? For that to wait then in the life?

Orthodox people know, that the child simply so is not born is a miracle which cannot be planned and which does not happen, having executed sequence of certain actions. Occurrence of the child is a blessing From above. And as we will dare to tell: «Thanks, are not necessary for us your blessing». Being protected, we offend the God. And if we know it, but we persist in a sin? Then it is considered as an abuse on Spirit Sacred – a mortal sin which never says goodbye.

Whether dare we then to hope on the help Divine in our life, for protection of the Mother of our Virgin, saints? Whom we will blame, when on our will, the God will leave our life? Even it is terrible to present consequences of this step! Whether will be quieter preporuchit the life to the God, firmly believing, that only He knows, how to us will be is better and that It will help the true children with any difficulties.

Well, you and how those families in which already there are 3-4 children, unless they have not fulfilled the duty chadorodija will tell, unless it is impossible for them to "have a rest"? I liked the answer of one priest: «And what you will tell to the person who to you will tell – I here till 30 years have stolen nothing, I am possible a little povoruju? Certainly, you after all so much veins also did not steal – go now,"come off"… Absurdity! Why in questions of a birth of children this logic seems to us fair?

Actually there is nothing terrible in that a question on a birth of children to leave to the Founder only. To solve and not to think about tomorrow, the Lord will take care of it and will not leave us. And still to know, that this decision the best.
This note has been written one year ago for a theme about a possession of many children one of mamskih forums … For this time in our family was born Vanjushka - lovely and very smiling kid. Senior children simply adore it - happens as quarrel, who the first will embrace and kiss it. And that acquaintance … it has already ceased to be surprised

Today I would like to bring to your attention a pie, which else have left nobody indifferent. I have found its recipe at one culinary forum, but unfortunately, have not copied a name of the author as at that time did not know a private rule – to specify authorship or the reference. The Pie-jelly is called «Beaten glass» - it is very effectively looked on a table, taste has gentle, easy, with freshening inserts of fruit jelly - just for summer tea drinking, well and with preparation the child … under a small management of the adult will consult even.

So, we will start to prepare:
Biscuit: to Shake up a mixer of 2 eggs and a sugar half-glass. To add 0,5 glasses of a flour and 1 ch.l. A baking powder. The dough of a consistence of sour cream will turn out. On laid by a paper for a batch protiven to pour out the dough and to level (it is possible to manage and without a paper then protiven it is necessary to oil). To bake in an oven at 150-180 degrees to readiness. Be attentive, that the biscuit was not overroasted or has not burnt. Readiness is defined by a match. Ready, still warm biscuit korzh to cut small squares. (Last time I have not put a baking powder and have insufficiently well shaken up eggs, therefore korzh practically have not risen, that has however appeared not so critical for this pie).

Jelly: to Prepare 3 kinds of multi-coloured jelly – it is possible from bags, it is possible from fruit juice. Unique council – jelly to plant hardly with smaller quantity of water that it has turned out more elastic.
Cream: 500 gr are swept away to shake up with 1 glass of sugar (or can reduce or increase to the taste quantity of sugar). 20 gr gelatin to fill in with 1 glass of cold water and to leave minutes on 30 before swelling. Then a glass with gelatin to put on a water bath (in a bowl with hot water) and stirring slowly to dissolve gelatin that the transparent syrup has turned out. A gelatin solution to pour in in the swept away cream (it is desirable to make it directly ahead of pie assemblage)
Assemblage.
To take the semicircular form or a bowl. Walls slightly to grease with vegetable oil and to lay out a food film or polyethylene.

On a bottom to pour a little the swept away cream. To lay out slices of multi-coloured jelly (it is convenient to break off slices a spoon), biscuit cubes.

Again to fill in with the swept away cream. And so, all components will not come to an end yet. It is desirable to spread so that slices of jelly were closer to form walls, and a biscuit is more subcentral.

To put the form with a pie in a refrigerator at some o'clock (the minimum 3), and is better on all night long.
When all will fall asleep, to overturn a pie on a dish, to remove a film and to decorate to the taste – for example, a coconut shaving or grated chocolate.

Bon appetit!!! It is assured, it is pleasant to you!!!

Unfortunately, I did not read the magnificent children's book “Chronicle Narnii” in the childhood, at that age for which it has been written. Nevertheless at the age of 25 years I have received huge pleasure from perusal literally greedily all parts of this book.

Therefore it was very interesting to look the film which has been removed on one of parts of the book - "Prince Kaspian" (an exit on screens of the previous film “the Lion, the sorcerer and the wardrobe” has passed by me). Having persuaded the husband to keep my the company and parents to sit with children, we have gone on a premiere. Though it also was a day session, to the people was much and that we have long staid behind tickets, into a hall have entered in full darkness under the first shots of a film (surprisingly, that the first 15 minutes did not twist advertising :-))

I will not paint here a film plot, and I will stop on the impressions. I will begin with the good. The film is removed qualitatively - excellent shootings, fascinating landscapes, suits and level scenery of "the Lord of rings”. The magnificent computer drawing which is absolutely organically entered in a reality - so, that to "find out" it it is possible only logically - after all it is impossible so to train badgers, mice and other running and speaking animals :-). Protagonists - four children from “our world” - on my impressions same with what them you represent, reading the book. And all plot of a film is as much as possible approached to the original, therefore there were no disappointments and vain expectations.

Now about that was not pleasant to me. Mrachnovato and in some places - it is terrible … Reading the book, Narnija it was represented by the light country even then when there there were not the most joyful times. And the more so - the fantastic beings occupying Narniju in the book were perceived as darlings, kind, charming and at times amusing (we do not forget, that writer Klajv S. Lewis was deeply believing person and has written the Christian book for children). In a film instead of fantastic gnomes - simply present genetic ugly creatures - terrible and pushing away. Centaurs …. In my imagination they always were white-skinned, fair-haired. On the screen we see Negroes-centaurs, black as coal, with the flattened out noses and shaggy dredami on a head (can, of course, it is a political correctness tribute, but the children's mentality nevertheless is more important). Each time you think at their occurrence - they with us or they on the party of the enemy - such at them an ominous kind.

And in general, the film is put under the children's book, it would be possible to expect, as the cinema will be to nurseries. However so it not seemed to me - despite simple and sufficient the clear scenario, many shots too heavy for the child. Beginning from gloomy kinds of the lock, rocks and other "pressing" episodes, finishing completely not children's image of witches and other nechesti. Probably the parents who have released children at cinema (and were there and 3-4 summer kids) do not need to be surprised to the subsequent night nightmares. After all feature of children's consciousness zakljuchatesja that it is not able to divide the world real and the world screen. For it all present. The present gnomes, the present witches, present minotavry which can "come" in darkness to the child. Somehow I read, that during Soviet time there was such rule for artists and script writers: in products for children (whether it be books, animated cartoons or films) even the most negative character not should look terribly). Probably then cared of peace of mind of children and their parents, and now? Or do not reflect on for whom remove, or meaningly loosen mentality podrostajushchego generations …

Well it, as they say - IMHO, a modest sight :-). To children 12-14 I am more younger years did not recommend to look this film, especially on the big screen. And itself I will wait most likely for a film exit by the following part of the book - suddenly it will be better?

If at you other point of view on this film, with interest I will listen to your opinion!